E-Day 2 June 2014

First of all, it's been a while that I haven't post anything.

Engagement Ring

Alhamdulillah to Allah S.W.T for the blessings during the ceremony that everything goes smoothly as planned. Praised and syukran to Allah S.W.T for giving me someone that shall lead me to Islam's true pathway. After going through so many disappointment in love's journey, finally, He granted me with someone that I am so thankful to have, my future husband, my future father of my child's and my everything as he is someone that nearly perfect to me.

2nd June 2014, the day of my engagement with Nasir Ng@Nash Ng. Just let me give a brief about how do we met each other but there is not much time frame included as we are spontaneously met. Once upon a time.......

I never met this guy, we met in social media (well, thanks to technology). Fortunately, Nash was working in the same department with my ex-senior during my study at UiTM KK, let me named her Debra, so I found out 1 picture tagged on Nash on Debra's timeline. Estimated on the month of January 2013.  At that time, I do not know that I randomly send a friend request over him. Just  a click to 'Add Friend'. That's truly happen.

After Nash accepted my friend request, there is nothing ever happened during our friendship. After one day that I saw Nash posted a picture at his workplace, then I did commented on the post, just normal comments and chatting. Still, nothing ever happened.

June 2013, I saw him at KKIA's parking as I know that he's working at KKIA, thus, I did PM him on FB asking whether he is the one that I saw. Later then, we continuously chatting through PM. Until one day, he giving out his contact number for us to be easier in contact.

We keep on communicate like best-friend and never had any loving conversation or intention of being couple. Until August 2013, we are getting closer and pronounced ourselves as couple randomly. No date required to describe our anniversary. It's not compulsory either.

Our relationship keep on growing as other couples. He is the best as he can handle my habit and my selfishness with his own way, that I can say that I am amazed! Nobody ever did that. Up until March 2014, his sister asking me whether they can come over to my house for 'MERISIK', which I am completely in shock as we have never plan or discuss about getting over one step ahead. I am quite happy with that as I have vow to myself that he is the last for me. We get everything in order to get engaged and now I am Nash's fiancee and soon being his wife!

Well, that is the brief of my not so-called-love-journey. Less than 2 years , huh?

Just to tell others that, long relationship doesn't show that you'll get married with him/her. Unplanned things works really good for me and Nash. Just ensure that we are accepting each of us completely and understanding well about both conditions.

May Allah S.W.T lead us to a perfect bliss in our journey and always show us the real life of family's thing as been taught in Islamic way. Kun Fayakun. In Sha Allah.

Let The Lyric Help Me

Assalammualaikum w.b.t,

Basically, there are certain feeling that people can't even express spontaneously or it is just he/she cannot tell everyone, for myself, I rather hold on to lyric of those talented people to express what is bugging inside of me..=(

** Listen To Your Heart **

I know there's something in the wake of your smile.
I get a notion from the look in your eyes, yea.
You've built a love but that love falls apart.
Your little piece of heaven turns too dark.

Listen to your heart
when he's calling for you.
Listen to your heart
there's nothing else you can do.
I don't know where you're going
and I don't know why,
but listen to your heart
before you tell him goodbye.

Sometimes you wonder if this fight is worthwhile.
The precious moments are all lost in the tide, yea.
They're swept away and nothing is what it seems,
the feeling of belonging to your dreams.

Listen to your heart
when he's calling for you.
Listen to your heart
there's nothing else you can do.
I don't know where you're going
and I don't know why,
but listen to your heart
before you tell him goodbye.

And there are voices
that want to be heard.
So much to mention
but you can't find the words.
The scent of magic,
the beauty that's been
when love was wilder than the wind.

Listen to your heart
when he's calling for you.
Listen to your heart
there's nothing else you can do.
I don't know where you're going
and I don't know why,
but listen to your heart
before you tell him goodbye.

Listen to your heart
when he's calling for you.
Listen to your heart
there's nothing else you can do.
I don't know where you're going
and I don't know why,
but listen to your heart
before you tell him goodbye.

Credit to Google (A-Z Lyric)

Behaviour Vs Elements

Assalammualaikum w.b.t,

A Bit of This (Credit to Mr/Mrs Google) :

Sifat Anak Ke-2 (Unsur Air) 

Sifat Anak Ke-2 Berunsurkan Air:

* Sentiasa tenang & menyejukkan perasaan orang lain.
* Membuat kerja dengan teratur, teliti & pantas.
* Keras kepala & hanya dia sendiri yang betul.
* Manja, lembut & sensitif.
* Air yang tenang jangan disangka tiada buaya.
* Mood berubah-ubah
* Anak manja emak
* Degil,ego,garang.
* Tak pandai memujuk.
* Sangat setia.
* Sangat berpegang pada janji.
* Berhati lembut.
* Sangat berdikari.
* Susah untuk terima arahan.
* Pemaaf & caring.
* Up-to-date bila berfesyen.
* Senang berkorban untuk keluarga.

Wanita berunsurkan Air Air sifatnya bersih dan suci, sejuk, nyaman serta menghilangkan dahaga. Air juga sifatnya mencambahkan benih, menyuburkan serta menyegarkan. Wanita bersifat air mempunyai ciri-ciri seperti berikut: * Menghidupkan hati suami menjadikan suami sentiasa bersemangat. * Mengambil berat tentang suami dan kebajikan anak-anak serta tidak membiarkan anak-anak hanyut dibawa arus hidup. * Hatinya bersih serta boleh membahagiakan suami dan anak-anak. * Menenangkan hati suami bila si suami menghadapi masalah.

Sifat Anak Ke-3 (Unsur Api) 

Sifat Anak Ke-3 Berunsurkan Api:

* Mudah marah ,cepat sejuk jika kena caranya
* Sedikit bergantung kepada orang terdekat
* Manja
* Sedikit terpinggir didalam keluarga 
* Memerlukan usaha yang gigih untuk berjaya
* Pandai menarik perhatian dan disukai orang sekeliling
* Yakin diri
* Sukar bertolak ansur
* Mudah kasihan
* Boleh menyerlah tapi menyembunyikannya
* Sikap malas dan manja
* Tidak suka menimbulkan masalah
* Manja dengan pasangan

KARAKTER ANAK TENGAH

- lebih pelik sedikit dari anak-anak yang lain.
- gemar membuat hal sendiri.
- Seringkali terasa terpinggir. 
- cuba untuk melakukan yang terbaik bagi diri mereka tanpa mengharapkan bantuan orang lain.

CIRI-CIRI ANAK TENGAH

- lebih berdikari.
- lebih percaya dengan keyakinan sendiri.
- suka mencuri perhatian dengan cara tersendiri.
- terlalu mengalah


P/s : just a thought..by the way " he's fire and i am water ". might that we are compliment each other.

2014!

Assalammualaikum w.b.t,

1st of all, praise to Allah S.W.T for the chances to breathe well for this 2014. Another year of living, wish for a blissful life, healthy environment and peaceful community for this new year.

Well, I am not a good blogger since that there's an inactive session for quite some time. Well, people's changed, nature changed and you are no longer same as what you've been before. Naahh! Craps.

2013?
Well, lots of sweet memories happened to me. I don't give a damn over those hurtful memories, as I'll lived my live blissfully. Highlight on those good things happened that I can still remember :

1) My beloved and lovely mummy re-married on Jan 2013, nobody got perfect family though, so, Alhamdulillah to Allah S.W.T because had granted my mum with her partner. No more worries over mummy, because she already got somebody beside her. Glad with those re-married thing. Well mummy, I have nothing to worry much about you since you had 'abah' by your side. May Allah S.W.T bless mummy's life.

2) I got new job that had given me good opportunity for career advancement. Good job, good salary and good environment. Sickness no more, that is something important.

3) Got my 1st brand new moderate car. My 1st car for my working's benefit. I don't need to choose perfect car as I am living moderately and it is just essential thing to have.

4) New 'partner-in-crime' @ love one. I am not going to write much about this guy, but honestly, I always pray that this guy will be my future husband as I am looking into married life with perfect family. I'll always pray that he will be my 'jodoh'. But, who am I to deny the fact that ' jodoh di tangan Allah S.W.T'? Overall, I already did my very best to look for my 'jodoh' and now I'll give everything to Allah S.W.T to do what is best for me. Kun fayakun.

5) Better relationship with family. Write less, I am happy with my family.

etc..etc..etc..

We'll see how does 2014 brought me into....

Muahhugs!

Thought of Dating

Thought of Dating :

1. Stop saying sorry to each other when there's dissatisfaction between both, because it will keep repeated until SORRY will no longer has it value.

2. Lower down your ego wouldn't make you look ridiculous.

3. Please be alert with everything that your partner has to say, it might be important for the relationship.

4. Don't just listening to what is bugging on your partner, instead, listening with your heart what they are trying to convey. Taking it for granted will effect relationship.

5. Don't act like you don't care and don't want to think every dissatisfaction that brought up by your partner, it is SELFISH though.

6. Just because your past or your experience turning you down, don't make the same thing to your partner, they deserved better from you. You also might not want to be what your past brought you.

7. Suddenly being in a relationship might makes you a bit uncomfortable after few years without that, it doesn't mean that you are selfish enough to avoid any loving issue. Please take note that your partner might be your soulmate.

8. Don't expect that only ONE of you being matured in a relationship, instead, both of you should know how to handle MATURED relationship.

9. If you are honest much to accept the way your partner is, please be ready with all consequences. Don't brought up their bad past or experience when there is an argument between both.

9. Couple should know their partner well, when someone being too much childish, another should treat it in a matured way. Don't put your anger around their natural habit.

10. For woman, don't ask too much from your partner & be independent. For man, return your woman's call or text is quite enough to ensure that both are understanding each other.

11. For man, don't blame woman when they are over-think, they are always looking for a way to ensure that your love only made for them. For woman, don't control your partner before both of you getting married.

12. Have faith in what said as 'meant for each other' , if someone meant to be yours, accept it accordingly & let bygone be bygone.

With Love,

Ayda Farezah